Today is the day I decided to wrap up and box all of the presents to be sent out. My goal is to get them in the mail tomorrow which would be ahead of time for me. I trained my family members years ago that Christmas is mid-January in my necks of the woods. I've been slowly returning to my Holiday Duties (as I see them) for a few years now. I remember calling my mom 4 years ago and asking if the family would understand if I just didn't do Christmas that year. You see, my husband had just broke his neck (C2) and was in a halo and I just couldn't face getting everything taken care of. My mom said of course the family would understand.
Well, I've been getting back into the swing of things ever since. This time of year is really a reminder to hold those family members dear. It is not about the purchased gifts, it is about LOVE! Love for everything - love for all humans, animals, plants, rocks, light, laughter. Love for those close to you and love for strangers. Every holiday season, the people of Boulder get uglier and meaner while doing their shopping. It is horrible and builds in tension each day until Christmas is over. For years now, my husband & I jokingly refer to this phenomena as the "Christmas Spirit". Honestly though, it is quite sad. I believe it happens because everyone wants to make everybody else happy for the holiday. News Flash: Angry people aren't happy! Instead of fighting for and/or over that "perfect gift" (i.e.- whatever is popular and expensive), invest some time or love instead. Love is much more rewarding and definitely the longest lasting man-made item out there.
Good luck to all in the next few weeks. Share smiles with strangers and maybe they will pass them on too.
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Thank you for posting this! I have to say it's very hard for me to deal with crabby people at this time of year also. It should be a time for getting together with friends and family, cooking and baking for loved ones and enjoying some quiet, peaceful moments to reflect. I'd love to just hug one of those crabby grumps but I'm afraid I'd get punched in the face!
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